From the outside, a Copper & Thyme dinner party might look effortless—guests laughing over beautifully plated dishes, the host relaxed and present, every bite thoughtfully prepared. But behind the scenes, there’s an entire process that brings that experience to life.

Here’s a look at what really goes into planning and executing one of our customized in-home events—from the first idea to the final clean-up.

Endive and Roquefort Salad with Pear Vinaigrette - private event catering — **Endive and Roquefort Salad with Pear Vinaigrette**

The Customization Starts Long Before the First Course

It all begins with a conversation. I take the time to learn about your occasion, your preferences, your favorite dishes, and even the mood you want to set. Are we celebrating a milestone birthday? Hosting a cozy dinner with close friends? Surprising someone with their all-time favorite meal? Every menu I create is completely customized—no templates, no shortcuts.

I consider dietary needs, seasonal ingredients, and creative ways to bring personality to the plate. My goal is always to make the food feel personal, thoughtful, and memorable.

Shopping for the Right Ingredients—Not Just Convenient Ones

Once the menu is finalized, I source ingredients from trusted vendors, specialty shops, and local farmers markets. I know where to go for the freshest seafood, the perfect cheese, or the exact herb that will make a dish sing. Shopping isn’t just a task—it’s part of the craft.

This attention to quality and detail is what sets the tone for the meal to come.

**Artichoke fritters with whipped herb goat cheese**

Prepping and Plating with Intention

Back in the kitchen, I prep each dish with care, staying focused on flavor, texture, and timing. Every element is thoughtfully composed, and each plate is designed to look as beautiful as it tastes.

Because let’s be honest—we eat with our eyes first. And part of the Copper & Thyme experience is delivering dishes that feel just as special as the occasion you’re celebrating.

Serving the Meal—and Creating the Atmosphere

During the event, I don’t just cook—I create an atmosphere. I quietly manage the kitchen so the host can relax and be fully present. I time each course so the evening flows naturally, making sure everyone feels taken care of and that the experience is seamless from start to finish.

The Clean-Up You Don’t Have to Think About

Once dessert is served and guests begin to linger over the last sips of wine, I shift into clean-up mode. The kitchen is left spotless—no dishes piled high, no trace of the hustle that just unfolded behind the scenes.

You’re left with a memory, not a mess.

Reflection and Feedback

After the event, I always check in. Your feedback helps shape future experiences and ensures I continue exceeding expectations. Knowing that the meal felt personal, the evening felt effortless, and that your guests walked away impressed—that’s what fuels me.

Because for me, it’s never just about the food. It’s about the experience, the connection, and creating something meaningful.

Whether it’s an intimate dinner or a special celebration, I approach each event with care, creativity, and a deep respect for the people I’m cooking for. That’s what happens behind the apron—and it’s what makes each Copper & Thyme experience so special.

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